Integration of Consciousness (DMA)

Starts: July 12, 2017 This is an incredibly practical guide to creating what you want in your life. One of Carl’s favorite classes to teach, he describes it as “the nicest, simplest, most compact, elegant, and effective thing of its kind I have ever encountered. It is...

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Evening with Carl

Friday, July 14, 2017, 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Evenings with Carl are laughter-filled nights of formally informal lecture and discussion. These enlightening and entertaining seminars have been known to delight people into shifts and openings that continue to be enjoyed...

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What is NLP?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a wonderfully rich mix of perspectives and perceptual and behavioral skills and tools for personal development and enhanced interactions with others. NLP is about the ability to discover, understand,...

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Free Introductory Workshop

Saturday, July 15th, 2017 For everyone who didn’t get the full “User Manual” for being human, a 3-hour tour of the NLP toolbox led by Carl Buchheit. You leave the workshop with NLP techniques that you can begin to use right away. This is the introduction to the...

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Money Magic Webinar

  Money Magic is a very popular, fun and highly interactive experiential process designed to resolve unconscious blocks and limitations around money, and to create conscious and unconscious patterns and habits that naturally bring about more satisfaction and...

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Your Webinar Replay

{NOTE: What's more apt to be part of this discussion of the human experience than technical difficulties showing up? Michelle appears onscreen around the two-minute mark but you can hear her speaking from the very beginning of the video.} On the Webinar, Michelle...

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A Brief Note About the End of “Human Suffering”

The nature, purpose, and operation of what I describe as "Human Suffering" are some of the most important themes in the body of knowledge we are developing and calling “Marin NLP”. These themes organize a lot of our ideas about the experience of being human. These...

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The Difficult Destiny of “Nobody’s Girl”

We have all heard of "Mama's Boys" and "Daddy's Girls." The "Mama's Boy" label is usually derisive, a just cause for having a playground fight at recess. No one wants to be a Mama's Boy. It shows very bad form, generally speaking. "Daddy's Girl" is held and...

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About Survival and Devotion: What’s Wrong With Us

When I first began learning to do change-work (this was more than thirty years ago now), as I was learning to work with behavioral and belief-related issues both, I was struck by two ever-present, apparently contradictory realities: 1) that personal, conscious choice...

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Structure of Hope

WHY HOPE IS GOOD... Hope is simply the capacity to imagine a positive future. Constructive hope is the ability to predict a positive future as a probable outcome of past and present choices and events. Really, really successful hope is the ability to so thoroughly...

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Practitioner Training: Understanding Anchors

Learning about “Anchors and Anchoring” is an essential part of every basic NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) training. Unfortunately, most new students seem to learn that creating an anchor is a way of creating change, but this is not the case. Anchors do not cause...

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Constellation Narrative: Genocide

A woman had always had a warm relationship with her mother as a person, but had never felt nurtured by, connected to, or truly mothered by her. It was as if the mother had been more of a friend than a mother to her daughter, and the client felt this as a sadness and...

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Constellation Narrative: Date Rape

A woman had been date-raped and become pregnant when she was a teenager. Despite her desire to keep the baby, she had given the child up for adoption in response to parental pressure. Decades later, she was still unable to think of her child without intense feelings...

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Chreodes, Entelechy and Human Potentiality

In the last couple of years I have come to really appreciate these two words: "chreode" and "entelechy." Each word is fabricated from Greek roots. "Chreode"-a very recent invention-was coined in the mid-20th century. The other word, "entelechy," is also a little bit...

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Believing in Free Will: Do We Really Have a Choice?

Believing in Free Will:  Do We Really Have a Choice? By Carl Buchheit, PhD NLP Marin Most of us are mostly inclined to assume that most of our actions and decisions, or at least most of our more private and intimate choices, are the result of some kind of free will...

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The Mission: To Rescue NLP from the NLP People

The Mission: To Rescue NLP from the NLP People “Belief Blaster!”  “Limitation Annihilator!”  “Fear Destroyer”... these are the names of some typical, conventional “NLP change techniques.”  The grab bag of these “interventions,” which are mainly patterns that help one...

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Using Our Brains for a Change

All over the universe, or so it seems, human beings are famous for routinely experiencing what they most don’t want to have, and for not being able to experience that which they most really do want.  As human beings, all of our most stuck patterns of experience, from...

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The Underlying Structure of Belief

The Underlying Structure of Belief: No Matter How Cosmic It Gets, It’s Still All VAKOG “What is stopping you?” is a question used world-wide in coaching endeavors. It is most often posed in an effort to assist the client to identify the internal and external barriers...

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10 Delusions of Personal Growth Part III

10 Delusions of Personal Growth Part III (Delusions 8-10) By Carl Buchheit To recap: 1. That you can get somewhere positive by defeating something negative. 2. That people who take the “path of least resistance” in life are weak. 3. That fighting ourselves shows...

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10 Delusions of Personal Growth Part II

10 Delusions of Personal Growth Part II (Delusions 4-7) By Carl Buchheit To recap: 1. That you can get somewhere positive by defeating something negative. 2. That people who take the “path of least resistance” in life are weak. 3. That fighting ourselves shows...

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10 Delusions of Personal Growth Part I

10 Delusions of Personal Growth  Part I (Delusions 1-3) By Carl Buchheit 1. That you can get somewhere positive by defeating something negative. When we act to improve our lives by defeating some aspect of ourselves (for example, “an old, unwanted behavior pattern,”...

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